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Conscious Relating for Couples

In the deepest love is the greatest freedom

Being part of a couple is an opportunity to live fully and intensely, allowing love to transform you – to blow your ego away. Or it can be nothing more than a way of surviving in a society where couples are the norm. It can be safe, convenient and stultifying, or enlivening challenging and exhilarating. The choice is yours.

As Osho says:
“When two mature persons are in love, one of the greatest paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together and yet tremendously alone. They are together so much so that they are almost one, but their oneness does not destroy their individuality. In fact, it enhances it: they become more individual. Two mature persons in love help each other to become freer. There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? ”

Are you putting up with a dead relationship for the sake of convenience?

As couples we have the opportunity to function as a team “you and me against the world” – one of the historical reasons for marriage. We paper over this mundane reality with romantic fantasy, but roses, chocolate and expensive restaurants, are no substitute for real love, the kind of love that transports you to a new and different reality.

Beyond the romantic dream

In an atmosphere of acceptance and trust you will learn to recognize and move beyond the belief systems, robotic behaviors and emotional needs that are driving your life and crippling your relationship.

WHY ATTEND THIS SESSION?
Vulnerability and trust, the willingness to be seen as we are
Learn the ways of vulnerability and trust. Once you accept yourselves as you are, the need for self-protection disappears and you can relax into acceptance of each other as vulnerable and fallible human beings. You can then relate to each other fearlessly from the heart.
If you are ready to allow your relationship to become the doorway to transformation then this session is for you.

WHAT WILL I LEARN?
  • Techniques to enhance your ability to remain grounded in the present moment
  • Ways of recognizing when old patterns of avoidance have been triggered
  • What it feels like to relate openly and authentically with each other
  • How to stay grounded in your own being and share your point of view in gentle, nonthreatening ways
  • To be comfortable with your own needs and with sharing them with each other

WHAT IS INCLUDED?
  • A couples session of 60, 90 or 120 minutes with an experienced facilitator
  • A series of techniques for use in your daily life to remain relaxed and open to each other
  • Time to discuss any questions you may have, with your facilitator
  • Directions regarding OSHO Meditations that may support you at this stage of your journeys

“Love is enough unto itself.
“If your love is not the ordinary, biological instinctive love, if it is not part of your ego, if it is not a power trip to dominate someone; if your love is just a pure joy, rejoicing in the being of the other for no reason at all, a sheer joy, awareness will follow this pure love just like a shadow. You need not worry about awareness.
“There are only two ways: either you become aware, then love follows as a shadow; or you become so loving that awareness comes on its own accord. They are two sides of the same coin. You need not bother about the other side, just keep one side; the other side cannot escape. The other side is bound to come.
And the path of love is easier, rosier, innocent, simple. The path of awareness is a little arduous.”
 Osho

Dates:

  • Apr 08, 2025 ~ Bela
  • Apr 10, 2025 ~ Bela
  • Apr 11, 2025 ~ Bela
  • Apr 14, 2025 ~ Bela
  • Apr 15, 2025 ~ Bela
  • Apr 17, 2025 ~ Bela
  • Apr 18, 2025 ~ Bela
  • Apr 19, 2025 ~ Bela